Wednesday, March 10

Inside/Outside

Wow, today my work sent out the following email. So incredibly sweet, but also a little overwhelming with all the military-ness. I guess it's time to get used to it...
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Ten-Hut!

Shannon is shaving her head, donning camo, and heading to Korea!
(She's graduating early; her last day at work is 3/19.)

Let's have a little [office] gathering to give Shannon a big Hooah!*
Shannon ain't no box of rocks,** but while she's been squared away*** at [work], she's entering newbie**** land now.

Please bring some beverages and/or snacks, 4 pm, [office] barracks. Weather permitting, we'll hit the deck. Camo encouraged, but not necessary.


Need a little bootcamp before 3/18? Watch an episode of "Army Wives"  (starting its 4th season ... who knew?)

Or, perhaps read the moving poem below (moving... get it?) from the "Army Wives" website.

over and out (and clearly unfit for duty),
d


*Probably one of the best known Army words is "Hooah!" (pronounced who-ah, or who-uh). This word is usually shouted or grunted by motivated soldiers. It's general meaning is "Yes", "OK", "I agree with you", "Awesome" or any other concurring comment. Oftentimes, a group of soldiers will offer up the "Hooah" response when they are acknowledged for a job well done, or to express their happiness when told that things have gone exceptionally well and they are proud of their accomplishments.

**Box of Rocks - Uncomplimentary description for an Ate Up soldier, who manages to repeatedly do stupid things. Such a troop may be described as "...dumber than a box of rocks".
***Squared Away - This is a description of a soldier who always looks sharp, knows his job exceptionally well and is always on top of things.
****Newbie - This describes a fresh soldier just arriving into your unit.


The Military Wife
Lots of moving...
Moving...
Moving...
Moving far from home...
Moving two cars, three kids and one dog...all riding with HER of course.
Moving sofas to basements because they won't go in THIS house;
Moving curtains that won't fit;
Moving jobs and certifications and professional development hours.
Moving away from friends;
Moving toward new friends;
Moving her most important luggage: her trunk full of memories.
Often waiting...
Waiting...
Waiting...
Waiting for housing.
Waiting for orders.
Waiting for deployments.
Waiting for phone calls.
Waiting for reunions.
Waiting for the new curtains to arrive.
Waiting for him to come home,
For dinner...AGAIN!
They call her 'Military Dependent', but she knows better:
She is fiercely In-Dependent.
She can balance a check book; Handle the yard work;
Fix a noisy toilet; Bury the family pet...
She is intimately familiar with drywall anchors and toggle bolts.
She can file the taxes; Sell a house; Buy a car;
Or set up a move... all with ONE Power of Attorney.
She welcomes neighbors that don't welcome her.
She reinvents her career with every PCS;
Locates a house in the desert, The Arctic, Or the deep south.
And learns to call them all 'home'.
She MAKES them all home.
Military Wives are somewhat hasty...
They leap into:
Decorating, Leadership, Volunteering,
Career alternatives, Churches, And friendships.
They don't have 15 years to get to know people.
Their roots are short but flexible.
They plant annuals for themselves and perennials for those who come after them.
Military Wives quickly learn to value each other:
They connect over coffee,
Rely on the spouse network,
Accept offers of friendship and favors.
Record addresses in pencil...
Military Wives have a common bond:
The Military Wife has a husband unlike other husbands; his commitment is unique.
He doesn't have a 'JOB'
He has a 'MISSION' that he can't just decide to quit...
He's on-call for his country 24/7.
But for her, he's the most unreliable guy in town!
His language is foreign
TDY, PCS,  OPR, SOS, ACC, BDU, ACU, BAR, CIB, TAD
And so, a Military Wife is a translator for her family and his.
She is the long- distance link to keep them informed;
the glue that holds them together.
A Military Wife has her moments:
She wants to wring his neck;
Dye his uniform pink;
Refuse to move to Siberia;
But she pulls herself together.
Give her a few days,
A travel brochure,
A long hot bath,
A pledge to the flag,
A wedding picture
And she goes. She packs. She moves. She follows.
Why? What for? How come?
You may think it is because she has lost her mind.
But actually it is because she has lost her heart.
It was stolen from her by a man,
Who puts duty first, Who longs to deploy, Who salutes the flag,
And whose boots in the doorway remind her that as long as he is her Military Husband,
She will remain his military wife.
And would have it no other way.

1 comment:

  1. All I can say to this is wow... makes me feel lots of different very contradictory emotions, cannot imagine how you are feeling right now. So excited for your adventure though!

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